So its been a while since I blogger..well to say the truth, I spent all that time with my short flimsy dates and pathetic relationships. Sometime I even wonder why I alway fall for the wrong men. I wish I had a good man, but these days it getting harder to find an honest one.
Last night I had one of those excessive overload of emotions to blow out. Hehe, and I got just the perfect person to pick on....mmm..
I wasnt too hard on him. Yet it did kinda freak him out...
Ohh.... So much has happened.
I wouldnt know where to start but firstly, I have some thing imporant to tell all of you. Especially the ladies who are having hard times in there relationships.
I. If a man overreact over a petty argument and he disrespects you; eg. Verbaly abuses or threthens you in anyway more than three times. Yet he confesses his ''Love'' for you a million times and sets high expectations from you. In rare cases he would call you at strange (4 am) hours in the night, to know about your whereabouts.
Honey, don't even bother thinking twice on giving this man a chance. Those are ALRAMING signs of an Abusive man.
II. There alot of gold digging men out there...well they are not neccesarily gold digger, but someone that always begges for money. EVEN ON THE FIRST DATE!
And the best example is, ''Oups! I forgot my wallet at home.
Ladies if you find yourself in such a situation, be smart and tactful on how to avoid the topic; for example, ''Dear, I wish I could assist you, its almost end of the month and my finances are really tied up at the moment.'', '' Baby not today, am really stuggling to make ends meet.'',
Just pretend to be fincially unfit to cater for his needs. Trust me, the more his convinced your not the easy giver, he will not waste his tine concincing you.
Believe me you, experience is the best teacher.